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I Almost Said No to a Treatment That Could Save My Life

I’m going to be really honest here.

There was a moment where I nearly walked away from brachytherapy. Not because my doctors told me not to do it. Not because it wasn’t recommended. But because I was terrified.

Not logical fear. Not evidence...

I know this might sound a little unexpected… but I don’t say “f*ck you” to cancer.

And before you roll your eyes or think I’m soft, let me explain.

The first time I saw that phrase, I got it. I really did. It’s strong. It’s defined. It gives fear somewhere to go. It’s a battle cry, a shield, a mid...

When Life Stops You in Your Tracks

I wish I could tell you this blog starts with a brave, inspirational moment.
But the truth is, it starts with me being absolutely exhausted.

The kind of tired that sleep does not fix.
The kind where your body forces you to slow down, whether you like it or not.

Let me set the scene.

I’m sitting at my desk, hair straightened for once (small miracles), ready to tackle the day… and my wrist buzzes. Again.
“You haven’t closed your rings.”
“You only got 5 hours of sleep.”
“Log your breakfast to stay on track!”

Honestly? I’d barely had my first coffee and I al...

Let me take you back to when I had my first baby.

I had no clue about pelvic floors. None.
Did anyone tell me about it? Nope.
Did the doctor, midwife, or obstetrician mention it? Not once.
Was I handed a baby, a few nappies, and basically told, "Good luck out there!" Yep.

Fast forward to baby numb...