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If You Leave, I'll Cut You Off: What That Threat Really Means Sep 16, 2026

A woman messaged me after a webinar last month. She was not asking about parenting schedules or who gets the house. She wanted to know one thing: could her husband actually cut her off completely if she left.

That question has stuck with me. Because I hear some version of it more than you would thi...

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Am I in a Toxic/Narcissistic Relationship… or Am I Just Overreacting? Apr 29, 2026

You're Not Crazy. But You're Starting to Wonder If You Are.

It creeps in quietly at first.

A small voice in the back of your head asking — is this normal?

Maybe it happens after an argument where somehow, again, you ended up apologising. Or after a conversation that started completely fine and en...

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