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Toxic Separations: When Money, Kids and Smear Campaigns Become Weapons Feb 09, 2026

When a Separation Turns Toxic, You Feel It in Your Bones

There is a very specific kind of exhaustion that comes with a toxic separation.

Not just the heartbreak or the logistics or the legal stuff. It’s the constant tension. The feeling that every move you make is being watched, twisted, or used a...

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Toxic Separations: When Money, Kids and Smear Campaigns Become Weapons Feb 04, 2026

When a Separation Turns Toxic, You Feel It in Your Bones

There is a very specific kind of exhaustion that comes with a toxic separation.

Not just the heartbreak or the logistics or the legal stuff. It’s the constant tension. The feeling that every move you make is being watched, twisted, or used a...

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How to Pick the Right Lawyer (and Avoid the Wrong One) Sep 10, 2025

Let me tell you a little story…

Years ago, I met a woman who hired the lawyer with the shiniest office and the most dramatic website headline. You know the type: “We’ll fight for you!” (Insert thunderclap here.) Sounds powerful, right?
Well, fast forward a few months, and she was exhausted, broke, ...

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When Money Becomes a Weapon: Understanding Financial Threats During Separation Aug 13, 2025

I still remember the question from a recent webinar like it was yesterday.
“My wife controls all the finances, and she told me if I move out, she’ll cut me off completely.”

Ouch. That one hits hard.

Because I know someone reading this right now has heard those exact words — maybe even this week. A...

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Why You Need a Support Team Before You Separate (Not Just a Lawyer) May 14, 2025

Let me tell you something that might surprise you: most people come to a lawyer way too late.

By the time they’re sitting in my office or jumping on a Zoom, they’re already overwhelmed, emotional, and sometimes knee-deep in decisions that could’ve gone very differently—with a little support, sooner...

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