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Manipulation Has a Way of Sneaking In

Here’s the thing about manipulation. It rarely kicks the door down and announces itself.

It creeps in quietly. It shows up when you are tired, overwhelmed, distracted, or already dealing with something big. And before you know it, you are questioning yourself,...

Have you ever had one of those days where life feels… a lot?
Not meltdown-level, not rock bottom, but deeply heavy. The “I’m functioning but barely” kind of day.

Yeah. I’ve been there.
Recently, actually.

And it was a post from a mum in a support group that cracked me open a little — in a good way...

Let me set the scene.

You're sitting on the couch, scrolling on your phone, sipping your coffee… and boom — a thought hits you out of nowhere:

“Wait… who actually gets my super if something happens to me?”

Most people have no idea.
And honestly?
It’s not their fault — because superannuation is no...

Do you know what happens every January?

No, my inbox isn’t filled with people signing up for gym memberships or starting “Dry January.”
My inbox explodes with messages from people who spent the Christmas break having one very confronting realisation:

“This relationship… isn’t working anymore.”

An...

You know that feeling when you hear a term like “testamentary trust” and instantly think, “Nope… too hard… sounds expensive… sounds like something only rich people need”?
Yeah. Same.

But stick with me for a sec, because this is one of those things that sounds complicated—but could literally be the ...

Picture this: you’re in a car accident. You’re unconscious.
Doctors need to make critical decisions — whether to operate, what medications to give you, or worst case, whether to turn off life support.

Who makes those calls?
Your partner? Your parents? Your kids?

Here’s the confronting truth: witho...

Have you ever scrolled Instagram and suddenly questioned every life choice because someone you follow is apparently running four companies, launching a course, flipping properties, raising three kids, and still has time to casually drink green juice beside a pool in Bali?

Yeah, same.

And look — go...

Ever catch yourself thinking, “Maybe it’s too late…”? You’re tired, worn out from the constant bickering, or just drifting in different directions. And then… the thought sneaks in: “Maybe we’re done.”

Before you call it quits, let’s take a pause. That feeling of disconnection doesn’t always mean th...

Let’s be real for a second… family law isn’t just about paperwork, legal jargon, and court dates. It’s human. It’s messy. And some days, it feels like your emotions have clocked in for a full-time job.

I’ll never forget a client who once said to me, “One moment I was angry, then I was crying, and t...