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How to Pick the Right Lawyer (and Avoid the Wrong One) Sep 10, 2025

Let me tell you a little story…

Years ago, I met a woman who hired the lawyer with the shiniest office and the most dramatic website headline. You know the type: “We’ll fight for you!” (Insert thunderclap here.) Sounds powerful, right?
Well, fast forward a few months, and she was exhausted, broke, ...

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It’s Not Always the Bruises You Can See: Understanding Coercive Control & Financial Abuse Aug 27, 2025

I’ve lost count of how many times someone has sat across from me and said, "But they never hit me, so it’s not really abuse, right?"

Spoiler alert: It absolutely can be.

Coercive control and financial abuse are some of the sneakiest, most damaging forms of family violence—and they often leave no p...

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What Really Happens in an Estate Planning Appointment (And Why It Matters) Aug 27, 2025

I once had a mini panic attack on a plane. Not because of turbulence or a screaming toddler—but because I suddenly realised that everyone I’d listed as executor in my Will… was on the same plane. With me.

👑 Yep, full Royal Family vibes.
And if that plane went down? So would all of my carefully plan...

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When Money Becomes a Weapon: Understanding Financial Threats During Separation Aug 13, 2025

I still remember the question from a recent webinar like it was yesterday.
“My wife controls all the finances, and she told me if I move out, she’ll cut me off completely.”

Ouch. That one hits hard.

Because I know someone reading this right now has heard those exact words — maybe even this week. A...

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How We Sabotage Ourselves in Family Law Matters (And What to Do About It) Jun 25, 2025

That Text You Wish You Didn’t Send

Ever fired off a fiery text to your ex in the heat of the moment and thought, “Well, that probably wasn’t my best move…”?
Yeah, me too.

Look, I get it. Family law matters can be emotional rollercoasters. Even when you know what’s the right thing to do, sometimes ...

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Think You're Ready to Separate? Think Again—Here's What You're Missing May 21, 2025

Let me tell you a quick story.

A while back, I had a woman walk into my office with a shopping bag full of random paperwork—bills, kids’ school notes, a receipt from Chemist Warehouse... and a lipstick. She plopped it on the table, looked at me, and said, “I think this is everything the lawyer need...

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DIY Will: Pros and Cons – What You Need to Know Before Skipping the Lawyer Apr 16, 2025

You know those Facebook threads where someone asks, “Do I really need a lawyer for my will?” and suddenly everyone’s a legal expert? 😂

In this episode of The Stacy M Show, I’m chatting about DIY will kits – like those $30 ones you grab from the post office. People love them because they’re quick an...

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